Let me start by saying if you are comfortable being “satisfied” this blog post is not for you…
Consider this, it is possible to be fulfilled in your career, have control over the amount of money you bring in each month, to love what you do and to make the world a better place while you are doing it. If you have always believed deep down that this is true, and are motivated to do whatever it takes to create that in your life, yet until now did not know exactly how, then this article is for you.
With the direct sales industry experiencing explosive growth over the last two years, the need in the marketplace for more business opportunities and the necessity for people to learn skills to better their lives, better their circumstances and empower themselves, John Asaraf and Bonnie Bruderer saw a definite need and more importantly a definite opportunity in creating a different type of direct sales opportunity.
Now, just hearing the words “direct sales’ may have conjured a systemic response from within. Either you have had a terrific experience in the past and know the true benefits that direct sales offers such as more freedom, more financial rewards and the ability to create the lifestyle you truly desire and deserve, and are thrilled there is a new opportunity. Or perhaps you have a different opinion and like some fear the lotions, potions and pills that may have been pedaled to you from friends and family members.
Either way, let me explain what we mean by different and how by joining V.I.S.S. you actually can experience what it means to be in business for yourself yet never alone. With the tens of thousands of dollars spent on personal development for themselves, six books authored between them, and a combined three and a half decades in the personal development industry, John and Bonnie knew that they had knowledge, experience and access to training, support and information that can not be accessed anywhere else, all in one place. They also realized that what people needed most at this point were business opportunities, thus V.I.S.S. was born. V.I.S.S. stands for Vision. Inspiration. Strategy & Support. All of which you will experience in each and every aspect of the company.
The opportunity centers around joining our team as a distributor and learning how to teach Vision Board Experiences (VBE’s) to others through tele seminars and webinars, in-home settings and corporate settings. It is the perfect opportunity for empowered individuals that are looking to supplement what they are already doing, to add to a coaching or training practice and for those who are looking to make a big impact in the world.

If this sounds like you and you are wondering how to get involved, I encourage you to join one of our business opportunity calls on Wednesday’s at 5 P.M. to learn more. Only join us if you are serious about making a big difference in the world and your life and business as we are looking only for those who are empowered! We are looking for the first 100 Visionaries to join us at the ground level and are quickly approaching that goal, just three weeks after launch.
Visit www.ExperienceVISS.com and register for the call today if you know you are ready to finally experience a different type of business opportunity.
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Asking someone, “How do you meditate?” is like asking, “How do you get to Carnegie Hall?” There are many, many different ways—all of which come easier with practice. Here I will briefly discuss some of the most common meditation techniques. Try them all and figure out what works best for you.
The most important element of basically any meditation style is breathing. You will breathe in slowly and deeply through your nose, hold it for just an instant at the pinnacle, then as slowly as possible release the breath out your mouth, compressing your stomach down to push the air out of your chest cavity.
Another key element to any type of meditation is focus. Naturally our minds only hold thoughts for a second or two and then they move on—we are easily distracted. Meditation is only effective when we can block out our mental fluttering. This is definitely a learned skill that gets easier with practice.
A few more meditation tips I can pass along are to make it a routine. Set aside a certain time each day to meditate—put it on your schedule if you have to. Have a quiet, comfortable place to sit. Remove any distractions from the area (such as silencing your cell phone and putting your dog in the backyard). Sometimes it’s nice to have a CD of relaxing music or nature sounds playing. This can trigger to your brain that it’s time to get in meditation mode.
As far as specific meditation techniques, I recommend these four: the stillness, the flow, the centering, and the void.
Let me explain the techniques:
THE STILLNESS
This popular technique involves focusing your vision on a single point until you get the infamous blank stare (or if your eyes are closed, a sort of internal space out). You might stare at a spot on a wall, a candle flame, or a religious or spiritual object. You can also focus on something auditory like chanting or a bell chime.
THE FLOW
This meditation technique is very much like the one listed above except that you will focus on an object in motion—such as a water fall, your own breathing, or something auditory like drumming.
THE CENTERING
This technique takes many different forms but ultimately aims to heighten your awareness of your place in the world. Centering meditation can be either outer (real) or inner (imagined) but the intent is to anchor your perspective in the center of a vivid image in which even the smallest detail is noted. With this technique, you will get into your meditation space then allow yourself to let in an outside noise or thought. This can be a great technique for beginners because of this (if you find it hard to quiet your mind and concentrate). By responding to “distractions” by absorbing yourself in them and therefore dismantling them, you take their power away.
THE VOID
This technique is sort of the antithesis of the three listed above. Like the name suggests, here you will think about nothing. You will have no focal point. You could think of focusing on “the blankness” or “the stillness,” but nevertheless the void meditation is about the complete absence of any internal or external focus. It can be quite challenging but very rewarding and relaxing.
Good luck with whichever technique you decide to practice!
John Assaraf
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Affirmations are so simple and yet so effective. An affirmation is a statement, often repeated in our heads—that’s it. There isn’t much concentration or focus required. The affirmation’s power, however, lies in its ability to re-shape our thinking and perspective drastically and quickly. Here are 4 ways affirmations can help you
1. Affirmations quiet our ego’s mental chatter
One of the biggest stumbling blocks to many of the difficulties and complexities we face is mental chatter. It is this constant stream of thinking and ideas that distracts us from being able to focus on what we want—be that stillness and serenity or a specific goal. Mental chatter is the voice in the head that screams, “I can’t do it! I can’t do it!” or “I’m ugly. I’m fat.” Affirmations soothe this wailing like a pacifier to a baby. In moments of fear, panic, or anxiety, repeating to yourself, “I can do this! I can do this!” or “I am beautiful. I am attractive,” is incredibly powerful at helping you do an emotional 180.
2. Affirmations can begin to transform our thinking instantaneously
When we are focusing on “I can do this,” instead of nerves and jitters, we have immediately taken control of ourselves. When we are in control, we immediately feel at ease. Sigh! When we feel powerless is when our fears and worries tend to spiral out of control. Instead of focusing on the fear, saying affirmations gives us a new focus. It is the same concept as women doing deep breathing when they are giving birth—it gives them something else to focus on than the pain they are feeling. A slight change in focus can and does make a world of difference. This tiny little mental trick is a powerful one.
3. Affirmations put us in the driver’s seat
Affirmations can transform our lives by giving us a sense of power and control. Often it doesn’t take much to remind us of how powerful we are. Simply saying, “I am calm. I am cool. I am collected,” before a job interview can take us from nervous to confident in no time.
4. Affirmations can be effective when change is most difficult
True change comes in this manner: first our thoughts, then our words, then our deeds. First we get an idea like, “I’m tired of being overweight.” This gains momentum and turns into saying things like, “I am going to go to the gym 3 times this week.” What follows? Three trips to the gym. The problem arises when our thoughts still want to be couch potatoes. Stating affirmations like, “I go regularly to the gym. I exercise. I workout,” can shape our reluctant thinking. When change seems hardest, that is a sign that one needs to be using affirmations constantly to help change their lagging thinking. As you know, if you hear something often enough, you will start to believe it.
For more information on how to use affirmations to transform your life visit Transform My Life With Affirmations!
John Assaraf
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Dear John –
Awesome post. Yes, affirmations really CAN change lives! They do so much, and I often tell my clients that turning those “I can’t!” statements into “I can!” is a big first step toward success.
Looking forward,
Jonathan Flaks
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I think I have been asked at least 5,000 times what it really takes to be successful in business or your career, so I jotted down 10 questions you can use to gauge whether you already have what it takes, or if you need to do a little “work” to get there.
Many years ago I heard Jim Rohn say that you either pay the price of discipline or the price of regret. Discipline weighs ounces…regret weighs tons!
With that said, here are 10 questions to ask yourself:
1. Are you disciplined?
2. Do you take rejection personally? What about criticism?
3. Do you bounce back quickly from making errors or failing over and over again?
4. Are you a planner or do you do things by the seat of your pants?
5. Are you prepared to take risks? Moderate or Big?
6. Do you stay focused on one thing and one thing only until the result you want is achieved?
7. Do you have the stamina to keep going long after everyone else is tired?
8. Can you delegate well, or are you the only one who can do things right?
9. Do you wait for things to happen or do you aggressively go after what you want?
10. Do you do whatever it takes to achieve your goals or just what’s convenient?
These questions are critical for you to ask yourself in order to get a true picture of your nature and behavior. What I have found is that successful people are aware of the consequences of not being efficient in these areas, and find other ways, resources or people to manage for them. Good Luck!
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Looking at this list makes me think of what it takes to be a successful blogger. It’s the same things, so this list is more about what it takes to be a success in anything – not just business. Love your stuff – Catherine
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When I was 21 years-old, a gentleman asked me what I thought the value of an hour was. I honestly did not know how to answer the question. He went on to teach me one of the most valuable lessons I have ever learned.
He suggested that the value of an hour was priceless. This confused me some, so this is what he said to me.
“If you invest one hour each day in understanding yourself and your environment better, you will accumulate nine 40-hour weeks over the course of a year!”
Yikes! As you can imagine I was blown away when he put it to me that way.
Nine 40-hour weeks? This seemed impossible until I did the math. 365 days, times one hour each is…yup, nine 40-hour weeks!
He went on to ask me how good I could get at something if I did it all day, every day for just over 2 months. Well, you already know the answer to that.
I thought I could be awesome!
He went on to tell me that over the course of just five years, I would have invested the equivalent of 1,825 hours of focus on whatever I desired to accomplish my life.
Imagine for a minute, how good you can become at anything that you did one hour a day for the next year. How fit could you get? How much more in love would you get and give? How much more money could you earn?
Let me suggest that one hour is a small price to pay in comparison to the payoff. Just one hour a day may be the razor’s edge you need to really get the results you want in your life.
For me, the decision was easy. I have been studying human potential and the mind for over 20 years. Each time I think I’m getting a good handle on it, I am gently reminded of how much there is to observe and learn.
Is getting what you want worth an hour a day? I certainly hope so.
I still manage to set aside my hour to read motivational stories or listen to inspirational people. They are the fuel for my mind and it keeps me learning and yearning for more.
Please adopt an hour a day for yourself! Pick one area of your life that you want to improve and commit the next 90 days to that one thing.
I assure you that the results you achieve will be well worth the decision! And remember…you can’t take out of life more than you put in.
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Dear John. Lots of things are happening on the internet,lots of new information is shared freely. But since my one year membership of One Coach your one of the people that i always return to . since your information is leading me back to the basics of understanding how to live an abundant, balanced life.
And again and again i appreciate your dedication to your relations network so much. One hour, you bet, it has given me so much for the last six months. And another thing, i left One Coach because i felt there was a huge gap between where i was and the gigantic quality of information you offered. This gap was all about upgrading my believes and values. With one hour a day of self study i am beginning to catch up, always remembering the things you said and the information you have given me . One hour these days to upgrade knowledge and wisdom is necessary for me to stay in tune with fast changing world .Thank you so much and please keep sending me your wonderful emails !! Eric
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Here is another missing piece of the puzzle in achieving your goals.
Do what I suggest here and you will be healthier, happier and wealthier!
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John- spectacular setting! Perfect for conveying such a powerful message. Husukil qukni (Thank you for being such a generous caring leader.) I look forward to mastering the game along side you and your associates. Stay well my friend.
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Do you set goals based on how much money you think you can make or based on what you have done in the past?
Many people never reach their goals because they do not understand a few small key factors I reveal in this two part video blog.
Enjoy and make all your dreams come true!
Part two will be out Monday.
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Dear John,
Thank you so much for sharing with us this fabulos informations.
I am greatful
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Hi John! Thanks for taking the time out to do this short video. The view looks amazing and I bet the skiing is great there! I am off skiing in a couple of days so will be thinking of you and what you had to say here. Looking forward to part 2! Warm regards, Michele Maes
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Why are New Year’s Resolutions a waste of time? Because they are not backed by the right mental preparation and conditioning.
I know that’s a bold statement, but let me ask you, how many years have you been making resolutions, only to find that within two or three weeks (any day now) you’ve given up?
The fact is, relying upon will power, resolve and persistence is absolutely the worst way to achieve your new goals. These things are controlled by your conscious mind, which is responsible for only about 2-4 percent of your day-to-day actions and perceptions.
It’s not your fault!
When I say that it’s not your fault, here’s what I mean: Due to your habits, you’ve become conditioned to stay in the same physical condition, salary or in the same mediocre relationship. An internal financial or physical “set point” is conditioned deep in your subconscious brain so that you don’t have to think about the day-to-day activities you need to do to maintain it.
Does this make sense to you?
Think about lottery winners: Why is it that within two or three years, almost all of them lose all their money? It’s because they are conditioned to be without money. Their do not change their subconscious set point of how much money they should have, therefore they revert to that point – it’s like an anchor on a boat!
Believe it or not, once any image, habit or belief is ingrained in your subconscious brain, you automatically seek out situations and behave in ways that resonate with that “internal image.” Now, if you currently don’t like the results you are witnessing with your physique, job, income or relationships, then guess what … you must break the old patterns and old conditioning that’s causing them!
How is this possible? Well, NASA has proven that breaking subconscious patterns takes 30-60 days of brain retraining.
You see, if you do not “re-train” your subconscious brain at the same time you make the decision to improve your health or financial situation, for example, you will within very short order return to your old weight and wealth patterns – and that’s why, despite the best intentions, the vast majority of New Year’s resolutions are not kept.
Simply put, there is a “cybernetic trigger” in your brain. It detects any change from your current situation, no matter what is, and it overrides your will power and forces you to behave in accordance with your old habits. Hence, the same results repeat themselves, because of the same thought patterns and behavioral patterns. It works exactly like the thermostat in your home that automatically picks up any change in room temperature and then makes corrections to return things to “normal.”
In essence, this automatic “trigger” causes you to rationalize why you’re not sticking with your diet or new financial plan, and basically forces you to revert to your old habits and patterns.
Think about this: When you break the word “rationalize” in two, you get “rational-lies.” The internal self-talk you catch yourself doing is automatic, and a result of the system doing its job to keep you at your “comfort zone,” even though it’s not what you want!
What does all this mean to you? Your income, your body and your relationships are only expressions of the internal self-image you have at a deep-rooted level… If you want to see permanent changes on the outside, you must retrain the mental image on the inside first.
So it adds up to this: If you truly want to make permanent changes in your life, it takes about 15 minutes a day of mental retraining for 30-60 days. The more you do this, the faster you’ll see results. The good news is that you can’t get a brain hernia if you overdo it.
The bottom line is this: When you are interested in your success, you’ll do what’s convenient. On the other hand, when you are committed to your success, you’ll do whatever it takes.
If you are serious about living the life you want and deserve, check out my Having It All program and I’ll show you the most advanced system for permanent financial and life success.
To Having It All in 2009!
John
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Hi John,
Great Article. I’ve been applying the techniques used in the “Having it All” program for over a year now. I can tell everyone this stuff works. Its one of the best investments I’ve ever made.
Thanks John!
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Hi John,
You Rock! I’ve read your book the answer and hardly ever disagree with anything you say. Keep it up.
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g,day JOHN i would like to say A HUGE THANKS, I DID IT I CAN SEE THE ARROW IN THE FEDEX LOGO WOOHOO! i dont know what that means but it,s there and i CANsee it now what else can i see?? free n clear un limited possibitys LOVE your stuff mate GARRY inozz
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hi John & Murray
I have just bought “The Answer”, and as an aspiring fiction writer, I am finding the information so far a real eye-opener. I can see how so much of what I have been doing has been keeping me stuck in a loop… and so much of it has been internal – me feeding me with the same stuff over and over. It’s been years that I have had this battle and now after starting to read “The Answer” I can see exactly why, how, when, and what the causes are! It’s as if a veil is lifting with each chapter. I had to tell you this because I feel that finally I’m reading a REAL self-help book that clearly and logically explains ‘the answer’ to my writing struggles.
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These are a great series of steps to accomplish anything in life. It is great the way they are so simply and masterfully presented.
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What are you waiting for? You can achieve all of your goals and more by joining the Having It All Challenge now.
This is your last chance to sign up for this life-changing program and there are only a few spots left.
You will benefit from the support of a group of like-minded individuals who are focused on attracting all of what they really want in life. And you will learn to harness the power of your subconscious mind to address whatever challenges you are facing in your life.
The cohesive energy of this eclectic group of people makes this experience incomparable to any other of its kind. This is why the Having It All Challenge is so exclusive. Your success is practically predetermined, because we are selecting people who are truly committed, not just interested in transforming their lives.
“Success is getting what you want. Happiness is wanting what you get.”
–Dale Carnegie
Achieve all the success and happiness you want in your life now. This opportunity will not last much longer, so act now and be a part of this exclusive group. For more information about the Having It All Challenge you can listen to a recorded call with John Assaraf and learn how to change your life now!
To your success!
John Assaraf
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THANKYOU,THANKYOU,THANKYOU JOHN I,VE JUST LISTENED TO YOUR FREE GIFT TO THE MINDMOVIES GUY,S MORE,MORE MORE,BLESS YOU MAN & FAMILY WOOHOO WHAT A RUSH OF AHA,S APRECIATE IT THANK,S
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Hi Garry. Glad to hear you liked it. Thanks for the comment!
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Hi John
During the past 5 years I’ve been on a spiritual path. I’ve studied under the teachers I was guided to.After ordering and reading through your course I noted that you made mention that no one has seen this energy you speak of. Its not my intention to make this statement wrong but to let you know that I have seen not only the energy associated with thoughts but the intelligent energy scientists speak of.
There are others too which I have encountered on my path that have also experienced what some might call the lifting of the veil. It goes to the core or truth of who we really are.
Now that I’ve set the intention to have it all I was again guided to your course. I knew that merely setting that intention without specifics would be like freefloating in a whirlwind, so for the time you’ve spent in this area I thank you. I wish you all the blessings your heart desires.
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I appreciate tips on meditation and points on variation. I like the idea about playing soft background music to set the mood for meditation.
Thank you….ursula
Hi John,
How about meditating using a ‘mantra’? Say by repeating in your mind a given word over and over until you attain absolute quitness? Thats the method I use and it works for me…
Regards… Mwenda