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class="size-full wp-image-1966 alignleft" title="Entrepreneur" src="http://www.johnassaraf.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/entrepreneur.jpg" alt="Entrepreneur" width="265" height="184" />Every thought you form broadcasts a distinct and particular frequency, and that frequency elicits a response from the quantum universe as surely as a swinging hammer has an impact on the surface it strikes. <strong>Things don’t arbitrarily happen to you.</strong> Events in your business are the reflection of your thoughts, the echo of your own actions and the thinking behind them. In the East, this truth is reflected in the idea of Karma, and in the West, the Golden Rule. The core of this principle is this—<strong>You are at cause in your life and your business.</strong></p><p>For many people, this is a challenging principle because it puts you squarely in the driver’s seat. Embracing this principle means you no longer have the luxury of blaming other people or external circumstances for the things that happen in your life.</p><p>Here is the flip side of that equation: <strong>Embracing this principle also means you have far more capacity to create the events and circumstances in your life than you have ever imagined possible. </strong></p><p>When we don’t recognize this principle operating in our lives, it’s easy to start seeing ourselves as being the <em>effect </em>of those events. Rather than seeing that we are making things happen, we start to believe that things are simply happening to us. This easily leads to what is often called victim mentality.</p><p>If you are someone who is growing a massively successful business, there is no place for victim mentality in your life. The two states of mind—victim thinking and entrepreneurship—are 100 percent incompatible.</p><p>The word entrepreneur derives from the French word that refers to the source of the event, the one who initiates. Building and growing a successful business requires a commitment to being at cause, not at effect.</p><p>There are many things you need to know to successfully play the game of business. A great many of them you can learn as you go, and a great many skills and fields of expertise you can bring into your business by hiring or partnering with people who possess them.</p><p>But there is one skill you must have yourself, and it is a single most important skill of any successful businessperson, the one without which success is impossible: <strong>You must be practiced at creating the thoughts that will serve your business.</strong></p><p>Creating a clear business vision is the critical first step to your success, but it’s just that: the first step. No matter how crystal clear it is, <strong>simply having a goal doesn’t make it happen</strong>. If you want to create financial freedom for yourself, five key elements have to be in place.</p><p><strong>The Five Musts are:</strong></p><ol><li>You      must find something that stirs your soul.</li><li>You      must become excellent at it.</li><li>You      must recondition your mind to believe you can have it and achieve it.</li><li>You      must understand how to make money at it.</li><li>You      must take daily action.</li></ol><p>Find more ways to live the life of your dreams as an entrepreneur at</p><p><em>The Answer</em> for you: The right thoughts, held clearly and resolutely, can build your dream business.</p> ]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://www.johnassaraf.com/having-it-all/entrepreneur-or-victim/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>36</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Give Life to Your Dream Business</title><link>http://www.johnassaraf.com/having-it-all/give-life-to-your-dream-business/</link> <comments>http://www.johnassaraf.com/having-it-all/give-life-to-your-dream-business/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Tue, 28 Sep 2010 18:21:18 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>John Assaraf</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Having It All]]></category><guid
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class="alignleft size-full wp-image-1982" title="Light" src="http://www.johnassaraf.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/light.jpg" alt="Light" width="250" height="169" />To create your successful business, you need to start with the part nobody else sees, the hidden part of your iceberg—your vision. The seed of your business is the vision. People tend to be focused on the how, thinking that is where the answer lies, but it’s not. Yes, eventually you need to learn all sorts of “hows” crucial to the success of your business. But the real key to building your dream business lies in the clarity and strength of the idea—the seed.</p><p>That is why “more capital” is rarely the answer to business start-up challenges. People often believe that lack of funding is one of a new business’s major problems. It’s not. In the same way that air, water and sunlight are not hard to find, financing is not all that hard to find—if you have a compelling and clearly viable idea and strategic plan for growth.</p><p>The world around you is absolutely flooded with money, ready to flow toward you and nourish your sprouting business. <strong>Just when we think resources are dwindling, we find new resources that can achieve the same things.</strong></p><p><strong>Develop your vision.</strong></p><p>The way the right note, sung clearly and loudly enough, can cause a tuning fork to vibrate and even shatter glass, is the same way the right thought, held clearly and strongly enough, can cause events in the physical world to happen. A single thought, held clearly and firmly can defeat an empire, as Gandhi demonstrated. And the right thoughts—held clearly and resolutely can build your dream business.</p><p><strong> </strong></p><p><strong>Create the seed of your business with great precision and clarity. </strong>This is the groundwork for every successful business that has ever been and ever will be. A vaguely formed, ambiguous seed will never sprout or take route. For a seed to flourish, it must be viable.</p><p>o   <strong>Write down the vision of your idea with specifics. </strong></p><p>o   <strong>Make sure your vision is clear and strong.</strong></p><p><em>o </em><strong>Figuring out the “how” comes after the vision and the decision. </strong><em>The How will always come after the What, when your Why is big enough.</em><em><strong> </strong></em></p><p><strong> </strong></p><p><strong>Be patient.</strong></p><p>Nature takes time to work, and so will the seed of your business. It’s called the Law of Gestation. A carrot seed takes about 70 days from the time you plant it until the time you have a fully grown carrot, ready for the eating. A lamb has a gestation period of 145 days. Human beings? About 280 days.</p><p>How long will it take the world to wrap you in the right set of circumstances for your business? I don’t know. But it will take some time. And I know this: If you keep digging up those seeds after you’ve planted them, you’ll stop the process cold. Gardens don’t work that way and neither does the picture of your dream business. <strong>You have to allow an idea the time to germinate and grow, to take root and find its resources in its own time.</strong> Let go of impatience.</p><p><strong> </strong></p><p><strong>Start putting your trust in your own resourcefulness and in the universe around you</strong>. The universe is ready to give you everything you want, once you are clear on what it is and patient enough to let it do its work.</p><p><strong> </strong></p><p>Nothing is limited—not resources or anything else. You can only limit yourself in your mind.</p><p><em>The Answer</em> for you: Your need the clarity and focus of a magnifying glass to create your dream business.</p> ]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://www.johnassaraf.com/having-it-all/give-life-to-your-dream-business/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>29</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>The Laws of Attraction at Work</title><link>http://www.johnassaraf.com/having-it-all/the-laws-of-attraction-at-work/</link> <comments>http://www.johnassaraf.com/having-it-all/the-laws-of-attraction-at-work/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Thu, 23 Sep 2010 18:24:01 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>John Assaraf</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Having It All]]></category><guid
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class="alignleft size-full wp-image-1986" title="Laws of Attraction" src="http://www.johnassaraf.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/laws-attraction.jpg" alt="Laws of Attraction" width="250" height="162" />In the quantum universe, there are no accidents. There are no coincidences. Every particle and every action is accounted for. We live in a universe of absolute precision.</p><p>The world of thoughts and ideas, of human ingenuity, creativity and enterprise, is not separate from the world of chemistry and gravity and fields and forests. There are no separate rules—they all come from the same rulebook. The laws that govern the movement of subatomic particles and solar systems, also govern our thoughts and feelings, families and careers.</p><p>This fundamental truth is all too easy to forget as we go about out daily routines, because we seem to live in two worlds—the seen and the unseen—the world we can touch, taste and see, and the intangible world that lies hidden away behind the curtain of our senses.</p><p>The events and circumstances of your business take place in the seen world. It is the immense, hidden portion of the iceberg that most of us are unaware of 99 percent of the time, while the tangible, material world we think of as “real” is only the miniscule tip that juts above the surface of our conscious awareness.</p><p>What sunk the Titanic was the hidden part of the iceberg that nobody saw coming, the part beneath the surface. And that is the part that sinks every business that ends up closing its doors.</p><p>The creative process through which the unseen world gives birth to the circumstances and events of our lives is the Law of Attraction. There are actually a number of distinct principles at work within the Law of Attraction. Here are six ways to put the laws to work for you:</p><p><strong> </strong></p><ol><li><strong>Everything starts as an idea.</strong> Everything      in nature, every phenomenon starts in the universe, starts as an idea. Everything      you manifest in your life follows the precise same pathway, from idea to      physical form. We create from the nonphysical level, turning that which we      can’t see, into that which we can.</li><li><strong>Realize you are at cause in your life.</strong> Science has shown us that the principle of cause and effect applies to the      mechanics of everything, including our thoughts. Things don’t randomly      happen to you. Realize you are making things happen or not happen. Commit      to being at cause and don’t blame external factors.</li><li><strong>Understand how resonance is at work</strong>. Resonance,      from the Latin meaning “to sound again” is simply the transfer of      vibration from one medium to another. Thoughts held clearly and strongly      enough can cause events in the physical world to happen.</li><li><strong>Your dream is within the seed</strong>. The      seed of your business is your vision. This is the groundwork for every      successful business. Your vision needs to be clear and strong.</li><li><strong>Be purposeful, patient and active</strong>. These      three concepts enable the Laws of Attraction, Gestation and Action to work      together. You will save yourself years of trial and error, and manifest      what you want in your life and business much faster than you’ve ever      created anything before.</li><li><strong>Get clarity.</strong> The      more clarity you create around your business in every aspect, from its      largest objectives to the particulars in everyday actions, the more you      harness the mind-boggling power of the quantum field to do your bidding      and bring that idea into reality.</li></ol><p>More detailed explanations on how these principles work can be found in my book, <em><strong><a
title="Read The Answer" href="http://readtheanswer.com/" target="_blank">The Answer</a></strong>. </em></p><p><strong> </strong></p><p><em>The Answer</em> for you: The universe is ready and willing to give you what you want, once you are clear on what it is.</p> ]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://www.johnassaraf.com/having-it-all/the-laws-of-attraction-at-work/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>21</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>The Real Secret to The Law of Attraction</title><link>http://www.johnassaraf.com/having-it-all/the-real-secret-to-the-law-of-attraction/</link> <comments>http://www.johnassaraf.com/having-it-all/the-real-secret-to-the-law-of-attraction/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Tue, 21 Sep 2010 19:27:01 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>John Assaraf</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Having It All]]></category><guid
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class="alignleft size-full wp-image-1974" title="Procrastinator" src="http://www.johnassaraf.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/procrastinator.jpg" alt="Procrastinator" width="250" height="215" />As a result of the film<strong> </strong><em>The Secret,</em><strong> </strong>millions of people have become aware of the principle called the Law of Attraction, which explains the creative process through which the unseen world gives birth to the circumstances and events of our lives. Because of <em>The Secret,</em> thousands of people from around the world have emailed, written and called my office to share stories about how knowing and applying the Law of Attraction has changed their lives. These stories are sometimes astonishing, often quite moving, and the range and variety of circumstances involved is staggering.</p><p>You can begin to use the power of the unseen world to create your ideal life and business. But here is the part so many people seem to have missed: The Law of Attraction cannot work effectively unless you also follow the Law of Action. <strong>Unless you get off your butt and do something, it’s not realistic to expect that much will happen</strong>.</p><p>Knowing the law of attraction, I wanted to really put it to use and see what would happen so in 1995, I created a vision board. I put pictures of things I wanted to achieve and attract—like a car or a watch—up on this board. Every day I would sit in my office and I would look up at this board and I would start to visualize. I would really get into the state of already acquiring it.</p><p>After moving three times and ending up in California, I opened a box that included my vision boards. I cut open the box that had been packed away for five years, and on one vision board was a picture of a home I clipped from an old copy of <em>Dream Homes</em> magazine. When I cut it out of the magazine, I hadn’t known where it was located or how much it cost. But there was no mistaking it. It was a picture of the house I was sitting in at that very moment. Not a house like it. It was a unique house on six acres, with 188 windows, 320 orange trees, 2 lemon trees, and a slew of other special features. I actually bought my dream home, renovated it and didn’t even know it. I was blown away.</p><p>I finally understood the power of visualization. While it all starts with an idea and a crystal clear picture of what you want, you can’t just sit around visualizing and waiting for things to happen. If all you do is visualize, the men in the overalls with the big trucks will come take your furniture.</p><p>You have work to do.</p><p><strong>Visualize and create a vision board.</strong> Write down your goals and then find images that match those goals. Use magazines and cut out the words and images that resonate with you. My book, <strong><a
title="The Complete Vision Board Kit" href="http://www.thevisionboardkit.com/ " target="_blank"><em>The Complete Vision Board Kit</em></a></strong> comes with a DVD, sample vision board and tools to help you create a vision board that will positively change your life!</p><p><strong>Feel the emotion. </strong>Act as if. Act as if you already possess the things pictured on your vision board—the house, the car, or your business. Say, “this” is already mine. State your goals in the present tense like you have already achieved them.</p><p><strong> </strong></p><p><strong>Repetition. </strong>Look at the images on your vision board over and over. Repetitiveness of vision combined with your associated emotions will develop your power to visualize and take action to achieve your goals.</p><p>The Quakers have an expression, “When you pray, move your feet.” Another expression goes like this: “If you’re going to be praying for potatoes, you better have a hoe ready.”</p><p>In a word—act.</p><p><em>The Answer</em> for you: Massive action equals massive results.</p> ]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://www.johnassaraf.com/having-it-all/the-real-secret-to-the-law-of-attraction/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>65</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>The Winning Lottery Ticket</title><link>http://www.johnassaraf.com/having-it-all/the-winning-lottery-ticket/</link> <comments>http://www.johnassaraf.com/having-it-all/the-winning-lottery-ticket/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Thu, 04 Mar 2010 06:41:05 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>John Assaraf</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Having It All]]></category><guid
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href="http://www.johnassaraf.com/john-recommends/these-free-gifts-are-absolutely-life-changing/" style="font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; text-decoration: none; color: #3C3C3C;">how to become a millionaire</a>. Instead, we should focus on being the best person we can be, we should stop procrastinating, and we should go out to leave a positive and lasting impression for someone or something.</p><p>The bottom line is that there will never be another you. You are one-of-a-kind.</p><p>Act like yourself. Be yourself. And live the life only you were meant to live.</p><p>To You Having It All,</p><p>John Assaraf</p> ]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://www.johnassaraf.com/having-it-all/the-winning-lottery-ticket/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>19</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Do you want to earn $1,000,000 or more a year?</title><link>http://www.johnassaraf.com/having-it-all/do-you-want-to-earn-1000000-or-more-a-year/</link> <comments>http://www.johnassaraf.com/having-it-all/do-you-want-to-earn-1000000-or-more-a-year/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Wed, 03 Mar 2010 06:58:03 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>John Assaraf</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Having It All]]></category><guid
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